Best Habits for Best Self


“ We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then is not an act but a Habit.”- Aristotle

 

“Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.”

 

“First forget inspiration. Habit is more dependable. Habit will sustain you whether you’re inspired or not.”- Octavia Butler

 

Here I talk about ( actually write about;.. forgive my bad sense of humor), of the best habits that you must practice to create the best version of yourself. These habits have been practiced by the world class successful peoples like Robin Sharma, Tony RobbinsKobe Bryant and many more.

 

Previously I had written a blog called “ 5 Crucial habits tobe done once a week ”. Please check that out as well.

“You want to sour to new heights and fly. But you can’t afford a jet. So you start with a paper airplane.”- Evan Carmichael

1) Sleep more: 

Get an additional 30 minute of sleep at night 




     But, Saugat, we all have been doing this a lot even more than 30 minutes ever since lockdown, you may say. Well yes you are sleeping a lot at day. Its not about how much you sleep but when you sleep. Our body is naturally habituated to sleep at night. The whole body recovers its cells and tissues. Balance of hormone is also maintained during our sleep. Disturbing this cycle could be very fatal to your health. If you have been waking up at night and disturbing your sleep cycle, you may be feeling some effects.

     Sleep duration for different age group varies. Whatever is your age add 30 minutes to your normal sleep duration. You may ask how do we add time to our sleep duration when its natural. Its not like a timer or something. For this you can practice some little changes. Tonight get ready to sleep early, may be about 10-10:30 pm. Half hr before you sleep do not use any of the electrical devices. Also turn off your alarm clocks.

 

Sleep by tilting your body to the left side. According to a research doing so is very healthy.

 

    2)  Meditate


 

     Meditate at least for 5-10 minutes. Hands down, meditation is the best habit you can practice. Meditation helps to discover yourself, it lets you heat your inner voice. I do it everyday. Typically in the morning for 20- 30 minutes. Those 20-30 minutes sets me up for the rest of the day. This makes me prepared against anything that is to come that day. It makes me calm and copes very well to manage anxieties as well. It has helped me bring put ideas and has helped me solve my problems.

     We are constantly giving our attention to a lot of external things. We are mostly on social medias, taking pictures and posting them. We are constantly observing everything that are around us but we rarely take time to observe what’s going inside of ourselves. This is what meditation comes in to save you.

 

3) Make yourself     Independent of your phone.

:Don’t sleep with your phone.


 

      Almost everyone of us, are very attached with our mobile devices. Over the course of yeas, smart phones have slowly but deeply grown on us. It has become like an organ to most of us. Some can’t resist the distance from our phone that we cling to it even when its charging. It has become a parasite that constantly feeds on our attention and disturbs our sleep cycle.

      Take it as a challenge and try to spend less time with your phone. Best practice would be, when going to bed keep your phone far enough that you have to get out of your bed to reach it.

      Don’t let the phone make you a tool. The phone is supposed to be your tool. Don’t make it the center of universe because there are a lot of things outside of that small box that you should prioritize on.

 

    4) Use the 20/20/20 formula

      Robin Sharma has introduced this formula in his book” The 5’am club”. He says that the luxury and tranquility of the early morning hours you can do the deep inner work that will allow you to go out to the world and play at your vest . According to this formula you wake up at 5 am. Do sweaty exercise for 20 minutes. Doing exercise in the morning releases neurotransmitters that reduces cortisol hormone, increases our metabolic rate and also increases serotonin which gives you joy.

      So, now its 5:20 am, fundamentally you feel different, you have energy, your state is strong, you have a fire in your belly and you accelerate your focus. 5:20 to 5:40 is the second part. Here you reflect. This is where meditation comes in or you can write your thoughts in a journal. You can also visualize. The last part is 5:40-6’0 clock and this is the victory hour. Here you grow. What do you think the world class successful billionaires have in common. They maintain a strong mentality which is one of the keys to the epic performance. They have relentless commitment to daily growth.

 

    5) Prime yourself

     This is an alternative to meditation. For many it is difficult to meditate and maintain continuous focus. If you are one of them,then this method is for you.

Its about putting yourself in a state where your mind and body will respond accordingly.

There are three simple steps;

 

1)    Sit comfortably. Take your hands up in the air as you breathe in and when you pull in your hands down breathe out. Do it fast for sometime.

 

2)    Now relax yourself keeping your eyes closed. Have your palms faced up on your lap. Begin to think of a moment in your life that you feel grateful for. It can be from anytime of your history, your childhood, teenage or recent times. Remember the event and try to step into that time. Try to feel what you felt then. Maximize the enjoyment and gratitude.

 

3)    Now focus on three things you want to accomplish. Three things you want to achieve. Live it and feel it and experience it.

 

    6) Have a good evening routine.

      What do you do before going to sleep? What do you watch or listen? Most of us are on social media watching violent Tv shows, horror movies or reading a scary book. These things can make us have very restless sleep and make us wake up very anxious and stressed. It can also affect our deep subconscious mind. So the best way to avoid anxiety and restlessness when you wake up, is to prepare yourself before going to bed. Earlier mentioned habit is one of the solution. Half an hour before going to bed, detach yourself from social media. Sit somfortably. Take slow deep breathes and slowly exale. Focus on your spine as you perform this breathing exercise. Now lay down on your bed and go to sleep.

 

Which of these habits do you think you need to adapt? Try to reflect on yourself and ask what are the toxic routines am I following. When you find hot routines counteract them with the aforementioned habits.

 

Good day or good night according to the time you are reading this.....

 


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